Thought of
the week.

THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – November 19, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

I’m experiencing a sort of existential crisis, and I would love your feedback and opinions, as I believe this is something that affects all of us. I’m blessed with the privilege of helping people help themselves. This is typically easy, as I know I’m not in charge, and I make…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – November 12, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

To me, love is the most powerful of all emotions. Love can be dangerous and love can be beautiful– yet love alone isn’t always enough. So often when my children are in pain–whether from a medical procedure that must be done, or from schoolwork that feels overwhelming– I want to…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – November 5, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

How do we show up in different areas of our lives? I have a podcast called ‘Showing Up’, and while it’s clear to me how to show up for myself and in the world most of the time, I don’t always know how to show up for a friend. The…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – October 29,2021

By Asher Gottesman

I was just reading Rabbi Jonathan Sacks’ thoughts on the weekly Torah portion, where he suggests that based on the wisdom of Abraham, the number one attribute when looking for a significant other is civility (known in Hebrew as Chesed). I interpret this as meaning an act of service. To…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – October 22, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

‘Ghosting’ is the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. Typically, this happens in romantic relationships, however, I have seen it happen in friendships and even social or business relationships. I had an experience this past week with ghosting that…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – October 15, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

I want to talk with you about the concept of ‘good versus evil’. Yesterday, I had the pleasure of attending my annual men’s group that I missed last year due to Covid. One of the discussions we had was regarding the afterlife, religion, and our beliefs. I suggested that any…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – October 8, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

Leadership plays a hugely important role in my life. I am constantly questioning how I can be a good leader to myself, to my children, and to all those around me. In my view, the key to great leadership is embracing humility and truly being seen as a member of…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – October 1, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

Commitment is a huge word, and is such an important component of all of our lives. The question is: How do we hold ourselves accountable to our commitments? In my past, I have made countless resolutions—sometimes daily, sometimes annually (think New Year’s resolutions)—only to not make it last longer than…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – September 24, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

How do you deal with disappointment—especially when you feel like you have done everything correctly? I was having a conversation with a friend of mine the other day; he is a man of deep faith in a higher power he chooses to call God. He was saying to me that…

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THOUGHT OF THE WEEK – September 17, 2021

By Asher Gottesman

I have for you today a direct quote from Rabbi Jonathan Sacks: “So, I tried to explain to the Rabbi the real difference is not between failure and success. The real difference is between failing and giving up, and failing and keeping on going. That’s the real difference in life.…

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